A Single Girls To Do List

You can’t make someone happy if you’re not happy yourself. You can’t be happy with someone else if you’re not happy alone.

Domestic bliss is all very lovely, but before you and the man of your dreams make a pledge to go off into the sunset together, there are a lot of good times to be had while you’re a single girl.

Here’s my Single Girls To Do List, a list of things you must DO while you’re footloose and fancy-free.

Have Fun! 

To Build Your Confidence…

1. Hit the Gym! Burn off some energy and feel good about yourself!

2. Pamper yourself, get a massage or get a makeover

3. Have an adventure: Try Ice Skating,  abseiling, water-skiing, or some activity you don’t already know how to do.

4. Get doing some DIY- Build something like a bookcase or put up a shelf for all your new make up.

5. Live Alone.

6. Challenge yourself,  Train for (and finish) a huge test like a marathon or study a course and complete it!

7. Read this blog post I wrote on 8 reasons its great to be single again! 

8. Visit a foreign country by yourself.

9. Join a dating site, it’s a great way to build confidence. Here are some tips on how to write the perfect profile.

10. Learn to stand up for yourself. Say No to people who expect to much from you, and look after yourself!

11. Go for a meal  or a day out alone, be happy in your own company.

Pssstt! If you went through a bad break up, read my blog post on how to survive.

To Be Able to Look Back and Say “I Had Fun”…

12. Witness/do  something once-in-a-lifetime

 13. Revel in being able to watch all the reality TV you want. I’m pretty sure no man will be able to stand as much TOWIE and Geordie Shore as my (girlie) friends.

14.  Get drunk during the day, just because you can.

15.  Go on a date with someone who actually makes you nervous.

16. Go out with an older man who takes you somewhere nice and treats you like a princess.

17. Go out with a guy who makes you laugh ‘til it hurts.

18. Go on a blind date.

To Get Perspective…

19. Be a good Wingwoman . It’s not always about you.

20. Volunteer or help someone when they need it most.

To Make You Appreciate the Next Guy…

21. Do at least one  Valentines Day Alone ( Try the alternative to Valentines day Singles Awareness day)

22. Attend a wedding (or an important event) alone.

23. Date the creeps. You’ll really value the nice guys afterward.

To Make You Feel Sexy and Attractive…

24. Get a haircut or colour, change your style!

25. Buy yourself some flowers.

26. Invest in a LBD (little black dress) and some sexy stilettos.

27. Sit at a bar by yourself and drink a cocktail. Cool.

28. Try the Frisky Girls To Do List

29. Buy something frivolous and expensive that you LOVE wearing.

30. Buy a sex toy! Read my post and find out which one is best for you.

To Make Yourself a Better Partner in the Future…

31. Make a list of all your faults.

32. Learn to cook well for yourself to keep healthy and away from to many KFC’s & for your future family(I’m still working on this)

33. Get some hobbies. Something’s gotta keep you occupied—plus it’ll make you seem interesting.

34. Get your finances in order.

To Appreciate Being Single…

35.  Babysit someones baby for an hour.

36. Help a friend through her divorce or a bad break-up.

37.  Host a girls-only night. I think some coupled-up women forget how much we need each other.

We can’t become what we need to be, whilst remaining what we are.

The Frisky Girls To Do List

The Frisky Girls To Do List

Explore your wildest fantasies with my ‘Frisky Girls To Do List’  Find your inner most sexual animal and unleash it upon your lover(s) whenever and wherever!

Ignite your sexual flame and heat up your sex life like you could never imagine!

The Frisky Girls To Do List will do all of that and more!

New places, new setting, new times! Yes, all new Thrills! You will have fun, you will always be one each others minds, and bodies 

But most importantly you will find a way to explore new sexual heights  that you never thought  you would reach!

Instead of the boring, “So you wanna to have sex?” now you’ll say, “Lets get the list out”

  1. Sex it up in a public place
  2. Go to a lingerie party, buy some sexy lingerie and wear it for someones entertainment
  3. Have some car sex
  4. Engage in some Costume play/ Roll play
  5. Have an office romance— doesn’t have to be full-on, but a kiss by the copier never hurt anyone
  6. Hook up with someone you’ll never see again
  7. Wield a riding crop or whip
  8. Sit on his face
  9. Hit the big O at the same time
  10. Ride him like a cowboy on top
  11. Ride him reverse cowboy
  12. Use sex toys  (click for the link to my blog (‘Sex Toys: Which ones right for you’)
  13. Do someone with a a circumcised penis
  14. Bar/ pub bathroom sex
  15. Shower sex
  16. Food play- Strawberries, Whipped cream and so on
  17. Masturbate
  18. Get a couples massage
  19. Be the dom
  20. Be the sub
  21. Wear nothing but heels whilst having sex
  22. Give him a sneaky peak of  your boobs or bum in public (be a devil, just make sure you don’t get arrested)
  23. Hit a strip club
  24. Do a strip tease yourself
  25. Lace up in a corset
  26. Get tied up (be sure to have a safe word!)
  27. Act out your partner’s sexual fantasy
  28. (At least) kiss another girl
  29. Kiss a random stranger
  30. Get your toes licked
  31. Get your hair pulled
  32. Get spanked
  33. The ol’ finger in the bum
  34. Give someone your panties
  35. Wear some Sex Eggs whilst on a date
  36. Help someone heal sexy nurse-style
  37. Pose for a camera (for some form of naked documentation)
  38. Have cyber sex
  39. Have phone sex
  40. Get bent over the kitchen counter
  41. Get dick slapped
  42. Get a pearl necklace
  43. Do someone with a shaven haven
  44. Do someone strong & ripped
  45. Do it doggy-style
  46. Have morning sex
  47. Have sober sex
  48. Have drunk sex
  49. Watch someone put on a sexy show for you
  50. Be watched while you put on your own sexy show
  51. Sex up someone older
  52. Swallow
  53. Give a hand job with your non-dominant hand
  54. Make-up sex
  55. Breakup sex (aka “last licks”)
  56. 69
  57. Work your way through myblog post 100 Sex Positions to spice up your life
  58. Keep updating this list with whatever your heart desires.

8 Reasons Its Great To Be Single Again!

1. Freedom

You can go anywhere and do anything you want. You’re in charge and your life is now completely in your own hands. Whether you’re a mum, a busy career woman or both now’s the time to do things you wouldn’t normally do. Just get in the car and go somewhere out of the ordinary – something you would never have thought to do when you were with him.

2. He wasn’t your person

If you were supposed to be together, you would be. It’s a simple as that. Whether you thought he was the love of your life, or you’d been rowing for ages, if it didn’t work out then it wasn’t the right relationship for you. Fact.

3. You get the whole bed

No more putting up with snoring, duvet-stealing, fidgeting men keeping you up at night. Learn to sleep like a starfish and enjoy that extra space.

4 Quiet time

You know those times when you really just want to be quiet and watch something you want to watch on the TV without some irritating running commentary? Now you can.

5. Less chores

Your mess is your mess. And you will tidy it and then know it will stay tidy until you decide to mess it up again. No more picking up his socks and washing his vintage boxers. You’ve got all that time back and you should spend it doing something you love.

6. So long, Dave

Remember that annoying mate of his that you really couldn’t stand but had to suffer on a regular basis? He’s gone! And you never EVER have to see him again. Now that, is definitely something to celebrate!

7. Meeting new people

When you’re in a couple, you tend to spend time with other couples. It’s just the way it goes. So ring up that single friend of yours, arrange an evening out with some of her friends and hey presto, you’ve got a whole new social circle.

8. The unknown

People are scared of it, but it’s so exciting not to know what’s around the corner. You have a chance to reinvent your life from scratch, to meet someone who truly deserves you, to do things that make you smile and to have an incredible life filled with love and happiness. We’re excited about your future – it’s time you were too!
P.s Try & get hold of a copy of the ‘Single Girls To Do List’ its a fun easy read and will inspire you  to embrace your single life!